Toni Maria Posted: October 3, 2015

From a Nightmare to a Dream

One of the first childhood memories Toni Maria can recall is watching German soldiers ordering her father to dig his own grave. They shot him, quickly buried his body, and moved her family from their Abruzzi farm to a prison camp. Today, she still leaves a little bread on a plate at the end of her meal, to remind herself of the scarcity of the food provided at the camp during WW II.

Blessed with beauty, vitality, strength and a strong character, Toni made it though. After leaving the camp, she became a nightclub singer, a chef, a restaurateur in San Francisco and a loving wife. Although she had no children of her own, her husband, Ben (her former meat delivery man who she met at her restaurant) more than made up for that by blessing her with six stepchildren. She loved them and they loved her, the beautiful meals she cooked for them and her understanding heart. That love for their special stepmother continues to this day.

Living most of their lives in San Francisco and Pacifica, Ben and Toni learned several months ago, that Toni was suffering from COPD. She doesn't have a long time to live-but she had a simple dream: To visit Cache Creek for a little gambling and to have a beautiful lunch at Kung Fu Fat's, a Chinese restaurant located there.

Greeted at Cache Creek by Veronica Wertz, volunteer coordinator and creator of "Dream of a Lifetime," a program that fulfills the dreams of terminally ill hospice patients, Toni was set for a fun afternoon. She looked up at Veronica from her balloon-decorated wheelchair in amazement when Wertz handed her $100. Then she played on the slot machines, one quarter at a time. "Once Veronica gave me the money, my hands started shaking," she said.

"It was so fun to see Toni out of bed and enjoying her day," said Wertz. "It may have been a simple dream for most of us, but it was truly what she wanted. She and her family had such a great time - and she loved every minute of it."

Wertz said the Cache Creek staff made their visit even more of a special event. "Everyone went out of their way to ensure that Toni was going to have the time of her life, and we are so appreciative of all their efforts. They were truly "dream makers" for her."

After gambling for about two hours, the entire family sat down to a fabulous lunch at Kung Fu Fat's. The chef even came out with a specially-cooked, spicy shrimp prepared just for Toni. They also shared shrimp balls, wontons, dumplings, pot stickers and Fat's traditional banana cream pie. Toni regaled the crowd by singing some old standards from her nightclub days and telling a few jokes.

Starting out her life with a nightmare, Toni appreciated that her closing chapter is ending with a dream. Her NorthBay Hospice & Bereavement nursing team has noticed that, since her dream, she seems so much happier and at peace. "I don't know how long I have to live," said Toni, smiling from ear to ear from her experience. "But I promise you, that I will remember this day for the rest of my life."

By the way, after lunch, the woman who has always lived her life to the fullest went back to play a few quarters more.

For more information about NorthBay Hospice & Bereavement's Dream of a Lifetime, or to donate money, time or services, click here.

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